A Girl’s BFF

Having a best friend is one of life’s treasured gifts.   If we are blessed, we may have several BFF’s to walk us through life.  As children, we tend to gravitate toward “one friend,” but as we mature, we realize that there isn’t “just one person” who can meet every need we have. As wives, not even our husbands can do that. Hopefully, you have been blessed with a variety of friendships. There are times, however, when it feels like there are none.

But there is One who is uniquely qualified to be a BFF in every way.

When we have something exciting to share, or something deeply troubling, we need a friend who we can call and talk to. When we are lonely, we need someone to be with us. Sometimes, unfortunately, the one we want is not available.  But God is. He is omnipresentor present everywhere at the same time.

Psalm 139:7-12 (NLT)I can never escape from your Spirit! I can never get away from your presence! If I go up to heaven, you are there; if I go down to the grave, you are there. If I ride the wings of the morning, if I dwell by the farthest oceans, even there your hand will guide me, and your strength will support me. I could ask the darkness to hide me and the light around me to become night—but even in darkness I cannot hide from you. To you the night shines as bright as day. Darkness and light are the same to you.”

When we are struggling with something and we need advice, we call up our BFF and explain the situation.  When she dispenses her thoughtful counsel, sometimes it’s clear that she didn’t “get it.” So we try explaining it againand still, our friend doesn’t understand what we’re going through, and so she is unable to give us the help we need. But God can. He is omniscient—knowing and understand everything. When the Bible says that God knows our hearts, it means that He understands our hearts even better than we do.  And He gives us direction through His Word (Psalm 119:105).  [Check out Light For Life.]

Psalm 139:1, 4 (NLT)Lord, you have examined my heart and know everything about me … You know what I am going to say even before I say it, Lord.”

1 John 3:20 (NLT) “Even if we feel guilty, God is greater than our feelings, and he knows everything.”

Acts 1:24 (NLT) “Then they all prayed, “O Lord, you know every heart.”

When we have a problem that is beyond our control, we need help.  Sometimes things are beyond human help.  But they are not beyond God’s help! He is omnipotentHe has infinite power. When life seems to be spinning out of control, He gives us His power to walk through it, and sometimes He actually stops the spinning.

Job 42:2 (NLT)I know that you can do anything, and no one can stop you.”

Matthew 19:26 (NLT) “Jesus looked at them intently and said, ‘Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But with God everything is possible.’”

We need friends. And although it’s nice to have a flesh and blood person, sometimes that isn’t enough. But God is! He is always available. He understands exactly what we’re going through.  And when something needs fixing, He has the power to do something about it.



Categories: Sweeter with God

Tags:

4 replies

  1. Nearly 4 years I moved to the town where I live now, and the thing I miss the most is that I don’t have that one, special close friend in the area. I have a lot of friends, just not the BFF relationship that females usually crave. While I admit I often long for that, God continually reminds me that I have Him and He is better than any friend I could have on this earth. 🙂

    • Sometimes we don’t learn how real and satisfying He is until we’ve experienced just what you mentioned. I had a similar experience many years ago. During that time, I reassessed my relationship priorities. My husband and children became dearer than ever–and the Lord was my sustainer. Like you, I often want “that one”, but then I see the blessings of the several, very different women, God has allowed to be in “my circle of love.” He knows how to teach us! <3

  2. Very nice!:)

    Date: Mon, 18 Aug 2014 12:46:08 +0000 To: sh_dkgeorge@hotmail.com

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

CommentLuv badge