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Fear Fighting–REVIEW

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Do you struggle with fear? Are you a fear dweller? You can be a Fear Fighter! Check out Kelly Balarie's new book FEAR FIGHTING! #fearfightingbookI’ve known Kelly “virtually” for a couple of years through her blog and periscope posts. But I met Kelly personally at a conference in Dallas last summer. She’s the real deal–the same in person as she is online. Beautiful smile, filled with energy and a deep love for God.  I was tickled when she invited me to be a part of her launch team. In her new book, FEAR FIGHTING, Kelly shares, with gut-level honesty, stories about herself and others and how they overcome fear.

Notice I didn’t say overcame. Kelly doesn’t claim to have fear licked, but she has learned a ton and and freely offers her insight in her book.

All of us experience fear. It’s part of our fallen, human condition. As Kelly explains, at least eight things induce fear.

Believing Satan’s lies
The need for control
People pleasing
Worry
Comparison and Competition
Waiting …
Rejection
The Past

Kelly covers each of these in separate chapters–each filled with bite-sized nuggets of truth to carry you from one moment to the next. At the end of each chapter, she includes meaty chunks for you to meditate on as you transition from fear dweller to Fear Fighter.

Fear Inducer — The Devil and his lies

I especially like her chapter on The Devil and his lies, for it is the foundation of every other fear inducer. He can send trials (which God allows), and he’ll feed our minds with incorrect thoughts about our circumstances, the ones we love, those we don’t love so much, and our past. Kelly nails it when she says,

…the one we listen to is the one we’re prone to follow. If we can’t hear the truth, we won’t follow it. And if we only hear lies, we’ll live by them. (Kelly Balarie, Fear Fighting, pg. 63)

The solution? Turning toward the heart of God …where lies can’t stand in the face of His love. At the end of this chapter, Kelly leaves her readers with a list of Ten Things the Devil Wants You to Believe (pg. 75) and juxtaposes those lies with truth from God’s Word.

Fear Inducer — Rejection and Opposition

Kelly’s chapter on Rejection is also treasure. She talks about “low-hanging love” … contrasting how we sometimes go to extreme measures to gain the love of others and how God’s love is hanging (like a branch laden with fruit) right in front of us. All we have to do is reach out and grab it. She shares a list of Scriptures that tell how deeply God loves us.

She asks the question, “Who are we to be adored?” And then answers, “No one, really. But God made us with this desire because He desires to fill it.”

Love Liberates

Do you struggle with fear? Are you a fear dweller? You can be a Fear Fighter! Check out Kelly Balarie's new book FEAR FIGHTING! #fearfightingbookWe can let fear control us and immobilize us. But that is not God’s plan. God’s plan for us is freedom. The picture on the front of Kelly’s book is an empty birdcage with the door wide open! Freedom is the opposite of fear. Kelly wants you to know … when you KNOW that you are perfectly loved by your heavenly Father, you no longer fear what people think about you, what the future holds for you. No longer are your caged by striving, worry, and anger. Instead, you discover that “love liberates.”

You don’t have to fear where you are going. Because when you know “you are His and He is yours … wherever you are going with Him, the real destination is joy.”

 

Low-hanging love ... liberates! @kellybalarie #fearfightingbookClick To Tweet

 

About Kelly Balarie:

Do you fight fear? You can live in peace instead. Join others who are fear fighting. Breaking free & boldly moving forward in God's peace, purpose, and joy.Kelly is both a Cheerleader of Faith and a Fighter of Fear. She leans on the power of God, rests on the shoulder of Christ, and discovers how to glow in the dark places of life. Get all Kelly’s blog posts by email or visit her on her blog, Purposeful Faith. You can also find a variety of resources for your fight against fear here.

 

 

 

 

 

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Hi! I'm Dianne! Wife to the Tim-Man and Mom to Max, Rachel, and Abby--young adults on their way to independence. God’s plan for you is to know Him and His deep love for you. He wants you to experience a fully satisfying life with Him. He alone is the Source of Life, Love, and Truth. At Sweeter than Honey, you will receive encouragement from God's Word--which always speaks to the deep needs of a woman's heart.

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  1. bethany mcilrath says

    January 13, 2017 at 8:00 am

    Sweet review of a fantastic book! I also enjoyed it very much, Dianna, and appreciated Kelly’s honest, humble approach!

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    • Dianne Thornton says

      January 18, 2017 at 7:38 am

      Kelly did a great job of pointing us to God’s deep love for us!! Thanks Bethany!

      Reply
  2. Sarah Geringer says

    January 13, 2017 at 8:16 am

    I am also on the launch team, and I thought the book was great. Which conference do you attend in the Dallas area? I’m curious.

    Reply
    • Dianne Thornton says

      January 13, 2017 at 8:18 am

      DECLARE! Man-o-man!!!! If you haven’t attended before … you have to go! If you have gone and I missed you … shoot! I’ll be there this year! http://declareconference.com

      Reply
  3. Heather says

    January 13, 2017 at 9:56 am

    Kelly wrote such a great book, with a powerful message. Thanks for sharing.

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    • Dianne Thornton says

      January 18, 2017 at 7:38 am

      Thanks for commenting, Heather.

      Reply
  4. Marva | SunSparkleShine says

    January 14, 2017 at 7:59 pm

    Wow, I’ve been hearing such great things about Kelly’s book. I was even surprised to catch her on radio talking about the book (yes, all the way over here!). I think this is one I need to add to my 2017 reading list, although I have to admit that list is already quite long with many unfinished books from last year. Either way, I know that at just the right time, when the need arises, I’ll know where to turn in my fear fighting journey.

    Blessings to you and your family for the New Year, Dianne!

    Reply
    • Dianne Thornton says

      January 18, 2017 at 7:39 am

      Kelly’s launch plan has had incredible reach! Praying many, including you, glean truths that will make a difference in your life this year!

      Reply
  5. Cheryl Gerou says

    January 17, 2017 at 8:44 am

    Visiting you from Testimony Tuesday. Thanks for sharing this informative review of Kelly’s book. We all have to deal with many fears, it is so helpful to learn strategies to help with our fears. Sweet Blessings to you.

    Reply
    • Dianne Thornton says

      January 18, 2017 at 7:39 am

      Blessings to you, as well, Cheryl. Thanks for dropping by!

      Reply
  6. Gretchen says

    January 17, 2017 at 10:05 am

    Enjoyed your book review Dianne:) This post explained well what Kelly’s new book is about and encourages the reader to delve further for more valued information. Your endorsement of meeting Kelly in person makes it all the more compelling. Blessings to you today!

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  7. Dianne Thornton says

    January 18, 2017 at 7:40 am

    Thank you for your kind words, Gretchen!

    Reply
  8. Starla Jimenez says

    January 18, 2017 at 12:04 pm

    Thank you for sharing this post over at the Grace & Truth Link Up Party!

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